blog about this long time...
i'm just wondering are kids bias or what...
i remember when we were younger or maybe it's still on now that children sing "世上只有妈妈好" and i dont remember any songs praising our dads or anything that relates to dads...probably there is but i didnt know...but where's dad's share?
and yea most children tend to be closer to mums than dads, obviously no exception with me :) but i am still close to my dad ok!
no matter how much mum always objects us in whatever we do, she's always the bad one and dad's the best one (always get approved for everything we want)
but children are still closer to mum...
during father's day and mother's day there will heaps of gift ideas for mother's day but less gift ideas for father's day
is it because dads care less than mums??
probably half true but i think dads would be much happier if they are cared and loved and of course to receive gifts even though they will say "aiya, why buy this? waste money only"
i'm not sure why but nowadays business marketing strategy (is that the right term?) gave me an impression that only mum's the greatest and somewhat/kind of/almost forgotten about dad!
they have so so so many ideas to make you spend more on mum...ranging from botox, to flowers, to make up set, to facial care set, to hand lotion, leg lotion, body lotion, to medical check up vouchers to etc...
dad? what did you get for dad? shirt last year, tie this year, shorts next year, back to shirt the following year? *sighs, we got dad a shirt this year, and last year, and probably next year*
dont forget if it wasn't your dad you wont be on earth because you need either his X or Y chromosome to be formed...
randomly browsed through facebook videos and i found this one of the best video i've ever seen...
i felt ashame after i watched this video...
i've got this from facebook...i know many people have shared this in facebook...
till then only i realized that i've actually kind of left out dad...
i cried...
and also because i didnt call home that weekend so i cried even more... :p
*oh wait, i just saw comments on this lyrics...my dad is in pink health, no worries :) he is all good*
it made me realized that i couldnt recall any good memories with my dad because they seem so unimportant at that time....
and now i dont remember who taught me how to ride a bike...was that my dad or my mum?! :(
i only remember i rode the bicycle with dad twice around my neighborhood and both times i was chased by dogs... *i attract dogs*
and also the annual CNY visiting to uncle kim tee's house (aka jianxiang's hse) till late at night and he carried me from the car to up to my room cz i slept while on the way back?
and the only few words from dad that i remember "one man's flesh is another man's poison"...it is so so so true that i actually use this sentence most of the things happening around me...
what else?
argue with him most of the time?
show him my black face when ever i dont like it?
*speechless*
i didnt know i can only remember so few things i did with dad...
i know there are more! but i dont really remember...
WHAT A SHAME ON YOU, MICHELLE LAM!!!
:(
no matter what i still love both my parents and loving them more now cz i realized to appreciate them before it's too late and while i still have the chance because not all kids are so lucky to have both parents with them :/
so yea...i know it's random but i felt the guilt for being dad's naughty girl...oh ya i assume dad wouldnt mind that his daughter is that naughty or else there's nobody to drive him crazy :p
i've learned how to count my blessings...i'm darn lucky... :)
btw i've written an essay bout 4 pages long about my dad!! too long to share here but you can get a copy from me personally :) i got an A- or A i think... sadly some stories are somewhat true but most of the stories were made up cz as i said i dont remember most of the things i did with dad... :( *wonder did mum show dad my essay cz i've got good comments...muahahahahaha*
